sadness

In an effort to create a paradise in our home one of his business is to manage the pain, because in life we sometimes find that the sadness that usually comes from not fulfill the purpose we want affected, fires, accidents, lost property, vehicle, car or lose a we love, or lose their jobs all that can cause grief
Actually it is only natural that we experience sadness, but most importantly let us not be dissolved in it, at least there are three steps that can be done
1. realized that all events are determined by god, we can only try, to pray, while the only god that determines
2. can be grateful for what we get because it was one of gratitude to the gods is also an appreciation of our work
3. do not have to work hard to get over the grief experienced because we work hard so happens we are increasingly lost in grief, we pray enough and busy themselves with activities leading to improvement so that next time we'll get a more maximal
These three stages are believed able to reduce a prolonged sadness and we can organize future life

Money is not our god

"Money can solve many problems but not all"

It's wise words to describe how we live our lives
We need money in life but that does not mean our lives for money, especially in creating a paradise in our homes, our hearts can not be dominated by the money we earn, happiness can not be measured by a lot of money we have, money is only a tool to support achieving happiness.
Source of happiness is in the heart rather than money, this is a logical explanation why there was an old lady can still smile through the day but only has 20,000 in his pocket and a rich man who is always stressful to think that billions of money that will be stored where?
Happiness will be born if we are able to address all the issues wisely, have money or not he was still able to accept with gratitude to God, we are confident of a predetermined fate, always try the right way and pray, this is the main capital in creating a paradise at home

keep your heart

keep your heart
keep your heart to stay clean
1. positive thinking to others but remain vigilant
2. believe that every person has special abilities in their respective fields
3. advise each other culture with patience and kindness
4. learn to hear advice from others even younger than us
5. often saw the condition of others who are poorer than we can cultivate a sense of gratitude to the gods

if these things can be applied in our family environment, then form a harmonious family can be realized

smile is good for all

what is difficult to create paradise in your home? a day in a family who have felt lost, at dinner, a delicious meal is tasteless, what's wrong?
yes right, the smile is gone, because today all the members of the family does not have a smile, is really a bad day
smile is the lighting of the soul, when it lost the soul feels dead
so it smile every time then you will get the life you live in the self and also others.
when the holidays arrive and you are planning a vacation in a beautiful hotel, the most important is to prepare yourself for happiness, one of them is smiling because it can emit light of yourself and create paradise in your heart, in your family, your home, or place you visit,

smile and make yourself happy at any time

nearest neighbor is a brother

that will help you when you drop a house near the door? or when the fire occurred, which will help you erase the contents of the house? You are the neighbors. why is called the brother nearest neighbors, although we have a brother or sister but when the distance from their homes with us for this position than that taken by the neighbors
favor in the environment is one of the keys to creating paradise in the home. we can not live if there is a quiet neighborhood of damage so we have neighbors on both of our lives so happy. wise sentence says "if you're cooking, to give even a few neighbors"

2.Support factor

a. location
When a family decides to have a place to stay one assessment is a strategic location so that access is easier for the family members in running day-to-day activities.
b.rumah that has a standard health
such as ventilation and adequate lighting, garbage disposal
c environment a healthy place to live
healthy in the community is not bad (crime, drugs, etc..) thereby providing a space conducive to a family for the well
d. house prices are affordable
This is a very effect on the buying power people, sometimes even a major factor in the decision to buy a dwelling with disregard other considerations.
e. house beautiful
for this one is absurd because it involves art, taste and ability to have it so my suggestion is to fulfill our need to be able to measure ourselves with the ability of the desire, so do not waste more than anything else is also going to be an error function so that a futile work.
a. location
When a family decides to have a place to stay is the location of strategic assessments that easier access to family members in running day-to-day activities.
b.rumah that has a standard health
such as ventilation and adequate lighting, garbage disposal
c healthy environment for residential
in healthy people is not bad (crime, drugs, etc.) thereby providing a conducive space for a family of good
d. house prices
This highly influential buying power to the people, even sometimes the main factor in the decision to buy a house with disregard other considerations.
e. house beautiful
for this one is impossible because it involves art, taste and have the ability to be my suggestion that we are to meet the needs to be able to measure ourselves with the ability of the desire, especially when errors occur so that the work to be futile.

1.Pshikologis factors (such as main factors)

that supports the various elements to create housing that can be delivered happiness of families, irrespective of all the main factors pshikolgis, have mutual feelings between family members, mutual love, protect, support and sense of togetherness to uphold the values that agreed, and wise / clever grateful for what the capital is now beginning to create a paradise in your home. This is described in a family that runs the rules set by each other and support each other have a simple family who has 5 children so that the 06.00 hours that night is that they are happy playing and watching TV suddenly stop the activity immediately turn off the TV broadcast page that will be changed and learn to pray, the voice that crowded by children who play video and voice to be silent. If it happens in many places will feel calm, we can imagine the atmosphere there is electric energy savings enough siignifikan